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What is a first contact and the first contact limit?

If there is no message history between you and another member and you send the first message or the first date request to this member, then this is a so-called first contact.

There are various kinds of first contact limits: 

  • basic members: 3 first contacts/ 24h
  • plus clients: 50 first contacts / 24h
  • plus escorts: 100 first contacts / 24h
  • agencies and clubs: 10 first contacts / 24h

Your contingent is automatically re-charged 24 hours after contacting the first contact for the first time. 


As a basic member, you send a first contact message at 8 o'clock in the morning, one at 12 o'clock and one at 10 o'clock in the evening. After the third sent first contact message you have reached your 24 hour limit.
The next contact with a new member would not be possible until 8 o'clock the next morning (ie. 24 hours after you have sent the first first contact message). 

If you do not want to wait so long, you can also become a plus member to contact other members immediately.

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