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You can find infos about first contacts and our message system here.

  • Is there a message limit?

    There is no message limit on kaufmich.com, which means you can send as many messages as you want to a member.  If you have not yet had a message correspondence with a specific member and you send them...

  • How does the message system work?

    You can find your message in your personal inbox. Once you are logged in you can see how many messages you have received in the so-called header on the top right corner. Your inbox is divided into 3 s...

  • How long do my messages stay in my inbox?

    Your messages - whether read or unread - remain in your Inbox until you delete them. You can also hide message histories (messages you've written with another person) instead of deleting them directly...

  • What is a first contact and the first contact limit?

    If there is no message history between you and another member and you send the first message or the first date request to this member, then this is a so-called first contact. There are various kinds o...

  • I am receiving suspicious messages - what should I do?

    Sometimes messages are sent that are not intended for personal contact, but are intended to advertise other sites and services - this is better known as spam. Although we use technical methods to stop...