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You can find infos about first contacts and our message system here.

  • I am receiving weird messages, what should I do?

    It can happen that messages are sent which are not intended to make personal contact, but to promote other sites and services - better known as spam. Although we use technical methods to stop so-calle...

  • What is a first contact and the first contact limit?

    If there has been no message history between you and another user and you send the first message or the first date request to this user, then this is a so-called first contact. There are different fir...

  • How long will my message remain in my inbox?

    Your messages - whether read or unread - remain in the inbox until you delete them. You can also hide message histories (i.e. messages you have written with another person) instead of deleting them di...

  • How does the message system work?

    You can find your messages in your personal inbox: If you are logged in, you can see in the top right corner of the so-called header if and how many new messages you have received. Your inbox is divid...

  • Is there a message limit?

    On kaufmich.com there is no message limit, which means that you can send as many messages back and forth with a user as you like. If you have not had any contact with a particular user before and you ...

  • I didn't get important Kaufmich mails - why not?

    You missed a date because you didn't receive an email notification from us? You didn't receive our monthly newsletter? You didn't receive an email about guests to your event? This could be because you...