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You can find infos about first contacts and our message system here.

  • What is a first contact and the first contact limit?

    As soon as you contact a user to whom you have not yet sent a message or a date request for the first time in this way, the so-called first contact is made. We distinguish between Basic and Plus profi...

  • I receive “suspicious” messages - what should I do?

    Sometimes messages are sent that are not intended to establish personal contact. Instead, they are intended to promote various websites and services and are commonly known as spam. Although we use tec...

  • How long do messages stay in my inbox?

    Your messages remain in your inbox, regardless of whether you have read them or not, until you delete them. Alternatively, you can also “hide” entire message histories with a person. These only become...

  • How does the message system work?

    You will find all messages in your personal mailbox. Here, you have the option of hiding entire conversations or marking messages that have not yet been opened as “read”. As soon as you are logged int...

  • I am not receiving any e-mail notifications - what could be the reason?

    Not receiving e-mail notifications about date requests, events, or blogs? Find out here what could be the cause. It can happen that e-mail providers (such as gmx.de/.com, gmail.de/.com, web.de, etc.) ...