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I received a warning; why? and what happens now?

In addition to the reasons that lead to a ban, there are also reasons for which you are initially "only" warned. With the 3rd warning, your profile will automatically be banned for 3 days. 

The automatic ban after the 3rd warning will automatically be lifted after 3 days!

Here are some reasons why you would receive a warning.

Event abuse

An event is an event, a temporary event with a clear theme or goal, in which a group of people participate.

Example: on October 10, 2013 starting at 8:00 pm, 20 male guests will be welcomed to a "Naked Dinner Party"....

If you should only offer an extraordinary service and just take one client after the other, this is not an event, but an advertisement for your profile and therefore should really be the content of a profile promotion.

Fake picture

If you want to give your profile more expression with pictures, you should only use your own pictures. You always have the possibility to upload pictures on which your face has been made unrecognizable. If the Kaufmich team finds out that you are uploading fake pictures, you will only be warned if you have already successfully participated in the verification process with a picture. If you have not yet successfully participated in the verification process with a picture, your profile will be blocked for further use and you will be asked for an authenticity check.

Insult and harassment

Always keep in mind that you are talking to real people here, but note that the gestures and facial expressions of a real conversation are missing; therefore, be careful with ambiguous and sarcastic statements that could be misunderstood. Good manners and friendliness should go without saying, so treat people the way you want to be treated, respectfully and with class!

The same applies to potentially unwanted messages, because unsolicited FSK18 content (e.g. "dick pics") can be perceived as harassment and may be punished with a warning if reported.

Abuse of the reviews

Reviews may only reflect the dating experience and may not constitute a personal opinion or private message. Insults, contact details, AO services, names, political statements or denunciations have no place in date reviews and will be removed by the support team.

Incorrect date reviews (e.g. accusations like "fake" or mere insults) will be deleted and the author warned.

AO (without protection) request/offer

Kaufmich promotes safe sex and prohibits the supply and demand of unprotected intercourse. This includes GV,AV & OV, whether with or without the actual intake. Profiles that offer this service publicly in their profiles will be hidden, warned if necessary and will no longer be listed in search results.

In addition, since 01 July 2017, the condom obligation and the advertising ban for unprotected services apply nationwide. A violation can therefore also result in consequences such as high fines from the authorities.


It is not allowed to denounce users publicly (i.e. in profile texts, status messages etc.). Example: "Be careful with user XYZ: he/she is a fake!

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